A lonely legacy

Jehoram, king of Judah, failed to follow his father’s example. He led Judah into wickedness. When he died no one was sorry (2Ch 21:20). What causes sons to rebel? Perhaps a need to establish their own identity, separate from their parents. They want to be known for their own ideas and outcomes, rather than being “his father’s son.” When your parents are good, there is no shame in following their example and adding to their legacy. God knows and recognizes you as an individual. There is no need to seek the glory of men. In the case of Jehoram, he cut off his nose to spite his face! He established an independent identity alright… “When he died no one was sorry.” That’s not the legacy I want to leave.