Expectation management

Buried in the genealogies is the quick statement about an obscure man named Jabez: “He prayed that God would expand his territory, bless all he did, and keep him from all trouble and pain.” (1Ch 4:9-10) What? Who does this guy think he is? It seems selfish and immoral to pray for a pain free life when we live in a world so filled with tragedy. What is more amazing is that Chronicle records that God granted his request. Now, this may be hyperbole. I’m sure Jabez had the same tribulations that we all face; hard work, loss of loved ones etc. But, apparently, his life was easier than most. A couple of years ago a book called The Prayer of Jabez became very popular. I never read it, but I can understand its appeal. Regardless of the popularity of the concept, a trouble free life is not likely, and probably not a worthwhile pursuit. Paul said, “all those who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” (2Ti 3:12) Jesus said, “In this world you will have tribulation.” (Joh 16:33)